Last week I took our two kids, Chase and Mackenzie, for an inexpensive and easy escape to Maryland's Eastern Shore. Unlike Martha's Vineyard or the Hamptons, it's short on celebrities and long on cornfields and regular folks--a bucolic place to play out the last days of summer. Here are some scenes from my Chesapeake Bay diary.
Day 2: Chase is fixated on crabs and each morning, first thing, he goes to the end of the nearby dock and helps me haul up crab pots. He pokes the crabs with a finger, squealing with excitement when they give him a nip, and makes me promise to take him for a crab dinner. Later in the day we head to the Crab Claw, a rustic restaurant on the St. Michaels' wharf that's been around since the mid-'60s. They tape sheets of paper on picnic tables and serve heaps of crabs, clams, oysters -- a very messy affair and the kids love it. As I suspected, they want nothing to do with actually eating a crab. Instead, they gorge on chicken nuggets and fries--and feed oyster crackers to the ducks that jockey in the water near our feet. The day ends
with cotton candy ice cream at the St. Michaels Candy Company.
Next we head to the Shore Sportsman to score night crawlers. Chase and Mackenzie want to fish off the dock. All way home Chase proclaims "Eeew, gross" as the worms undulate in a bag on his lap. I tell Chase that we'll have worm sandwiches for lunch. He sticks out his tongue.
At the dock our casting adventure lasts all of 10 minutes. The kids lose interest and I'm left with two rods whose tackle is so hopelessly tangled I give up.
Instead we head out onto the bay in a 21-foot sailboat. And as we drift along the shoreline, it's astonishing to see how much open space is still left. There are few of the McMansions that characterize some of America's tonier coastlines.
Day 4: The beach at the 48,000-acre Assateague
Island National Seashore, off the coast of Maryland and Virginia, stretches as far as the eye can see. Some sections allow cars on the sand (which perplexes me--why?), where families gather to barbeque. Kites play dodge-em in the skies. Beefy surfcasters surreptitiously drink beer and tend their lines, occasionally reeling in flounder.
The kids, of course, are clamoring to see the island's most famous residents--the wild ponies made famous by Marguerite Henry's book Misty of Chincoteague. Today we are lucky. Two ponies await us at the waterline and the kids get an up close and personal before the animals amble off into the underbrush.
The surf is so gentle that even three-year-old Mackenzie allows herself
to ride the surge in my arms. Chase digs, creating canals and sand
forts. When he finds a washed-up jellyfish, he executes sloppy surgery
until it resembles sushi. "I just want to see what's inside," he
explains.
The kids play with dogs in the surf. They watch as pail-toting
beachcombers read the sand for airholes, then dig for the clams that
lie beneath. Chase collects three live ghost crabs in a pail--which, of
course, he wants to bring home. The sun is low when we finally head
out. The kids want to camp but we have no equipment and you must book
months ahead to get a slot at this time of year. So we leave the beach
to another tomorrow--and another vacation.
In the car, I glance over my shoulder and both kids are slumped over in
sleep. It's about 5:30. As I drive, I remember the summers I spent as a
child on Cape Cod. We puttered around, did ordinary things, let the
simple unfolding of the days establish what happened. Sometimes we try
so hard to pack our vacations with events and amusements. But a few
days at the shore with kids, and the sheer openness to serendipity, is
what vacation is all about. If they're like me, they'll never forget it.










Wow! Great post and pics, Keith. So eloquently said, per usual. I love the one of Chase in the sand. Thanks for sharing!
I had a great time camping at Assateague a couple of years ago during a nasty storm. We had an ideal spot but booked it months in advance.
A little babe looks preety in the picture. Is she catch any fish in nuts or not?
How right you are about the Eastern Shore. 33 years ago, freshly married with only a few days off and little money to spend,we headed for Oxford Maryland, stayed at the Robert Morris Inn, ate at the Crab Claw, visited Assateague and had the best time EVER. So happy to hear that this magical part of the world remains special and unspoiled - for families with children and couples just getting started.
Kate
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The Eastern Shore and Sandbridge two great getaways and not that far....but seems lightyears away
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WOW - gorgeous photos - the essence of summer! i hope to get there, next year. thanks for sharing this!
Fantastic photos.... a fun vacation.... with the take away of memorable moments... does it get any better? Thanks for sharing!
Great piece Keith--the essence of the most valuable part of life--our memories of the simple pleasures we share with the people we love most! Thanks for bringing my own beach memories rushing back to me by sharing your own!
The way I see it you and your kids really had fun. This is nice
adventure vacation experience that your family will remember.